A decade back the line...

A decade back the line..

1.Technology

 My mom used to say me that to have  television in their house at their times was such a valuable thing and great symbol of status. And then after certain years when we used to watch television I remember how eagerly we used to wait for our favorite serials  and even used to fight for remote. Now  it feels like television is hanging on wall ,fully bored up and eagerly waiting for someone to  even on it!

10 years back the line to have phone was like to have luxurious car as of now. But now each one has phone! Does it meant each one will have luxurious car after 10 years? Ohh...just kidding...I meant things changes so rapidly ...what today is highly valuable will lose its value after certain years..

It feels like things started becoming smaller from t.v who looks like a box to a t.v which is smart and slim or  from a phone which had weight and having lots of buttons to a light weighted phone with numerous features and slim look or whether its computer which was heavier with too many wires is now been given an option of  laptop which could be easily carried.

 

Competition, comparison and judgements.

 Competition, comparison and judgments...

Competition: 

When we are born we are compared with our siblings, later with friends,colleagues etc,...no matter how great you are but when compared,either you will be better or lesser in the point of view of others. If you are lesser then you will be in a state of sadness,self doubt,lack of self esteem and jealousy. But if  you are in better position then you will be in a state of high ego, high self esteem, over confident and too much proud of yourself. 

Either stage is not good...because of competitions relations are badly effected and indirectly life is effected.

World of criticism...

Criticism...we all have gone through lots of situations of life in which people judge too much, they say like you are not good looking...they say you are fat,thin,ugly etc...and keep on criticising without even understanding its impact on us!

Criticism arises from imperfections. If we are perfect no one will criticize but reality is no one in the world is perfect.  No matter how great we are, people can still judge us from there point of view and can criticize us.

 They might sometimes misunderstand us or might simply do so to pull us down for either to satisfy their ego or just for their own benefits.

Let your each day count!

Let your each day count!

We all know how precious is our life,but sometimes every day is a same old story. Its a rat race which never ends...

  

  There is nothing wrong in following a routine but there is a problem when we forget our smile, when we are not curious to learn new things....when we are not even excited for next day!

Mobile addiction vs Willpower

We are so much trapped by our own mind that when it comes to change for betterment...we try 5 % and expect 100% result!

Mobile is such an amazing device but  only if we use it in proper way. The thing is nowadays if we are free even for a minute....our hand goes subconsciously to pick up mobile and then hours passes off in just scrolling down... Actually we are not scrolling pictures we are scrolling our life down!

If instead of using mobile too much unnecessary ,if we start observing life it would be a grate thing. Life is beautiful it is us who makes it boring! There is nothing called as boredom if we have our company with us!

But when using too much of mobile becomes our habit things go out of control then lets see clash between willpower and mobile addiction. 

Mobile Addiction vs Willpower

1. Mobile addiction: "Hey...check out me... I will show you something trendy and  amazing today"

Willpower: " You are right but hours will simply pass off in checking out so called trendy and amazing thing which is not at all amazing thing!"

2.Mobile addiction: "Lets make a deal to see for 10 mins maximum"

Willpower: "10 mins will become hours, not to take such risk"

Lockdown time

When corona virus came last year it was like so much fear...so much worries.. we never ever thought such things will happen...in this pandemic many had lost their loved ones,their business, their job,their studies etc... 

After 1 year when things had turn out to be normal again same things started happening and again this lockdown began...Hope things turn out favourable soon.

Today I just thought why not share some experience of lockdown. 

Lets learn from kids

 Kids are just amazing. Those notorious thought to create mess or those innocent eyes , those crazy behaviour or those happy smile, their stupid logic or their cute cheeks they are just amazing!

 

When we were kids we used to think when we will get big but now it feels we were at our best during childhood. 

So lets try to learn something from kids..

Perfection vs happiness

We live in a society where perfection is given important role. Everyone wants to be perfect . But does perfection really gives us happiness?

Let me tell you a story of girl ,lets assume her name as 'X',

  'X' was trying to perform best in every single manner. She was studying hard for good grades ,she wanted to go for higher studies and great job and wanted to make her name and identity in society... 

Success

 Everyone in the world keeps talking about success.... What comes to your mind if I say person 'X' is successful? 

You might immediately assume that he  must be rich , popular and leads a perfect life... 

But why we assume in such ways? 

Success actually means accomplishment of goal but why everyone's goal lies in name,fame and money? And are we choosing this goals because we want or because of society?

Lets understand about success...

Clear the junky brain..

Brain...the most powerful weapon which can just do anything impossible...

But the saddest part is we feed it with junk...

 

Yes, we are too much conscious about what diet we are going to eat, how much nutrition to be provided, how much carolie to be burned, which yoga is good for what, how much should be BMI etc But what about our Brain?

Yaa good health will boost brain power but why we take only physical health as criteria when mental health is as well important?

What this junk actually is? 

Junk is something which is not useful and in  deteriorates our energy and capacity. 

           Junk can be about anything..  talking about  bad qualities of others or blaming ourself too much, or may be watching shows that  demotivates us, or having addiction ,having negative emotions towards others, unnecessary  worries ,wrong beliefs,superstitions,etc ... So why not lets clear all this things in brain?

Lets decorate our life with glitters of smile..

 Lets decorate our life with glitters of smile...

We all smile but many a times people fake it...smile should be felt by heart.....An innocent smile of kids can make us feel cherished.Smile is something that make us feel connected with people,connected with moment,connected with ourself,connected with life!