Its required to say 'no' sometimes and not required to adjust every time!
This is for those people who always say 'yes' as they are too much concerned about if the other person get hurt! People who selflessly care for others.
In many houses, from childhood we have been encouraged to be a good person . And thus in order to do so we try our best to not to hurt others.Saying yes for all those things that they dont want to do just for the sake of others is sometimes great but can act as disaster too if done always. Specially girls have taught to adjust and understand which is really very beautiful thing. But why they are not taught when not to adjust?
Have you seen your parents, they dont just adjust ....infact they sacrifice their life for sake of there kids! They dont buy things for themself first but they always think about their kids what will they like, what they want etc. They won't plan vacation outside as burdened by responsibilities and in the process they get older. Once they are older some kids take them for granted which is heart braking thing.
