Self Love

 Self Love: 

Only Love that is not a waste of time. In the entire world we meet so many people...our family,friends ,office colleagues etc. Every relation teach us something or the other. Some are here for selfish motive , some genuinely cares. Getting attached with the wrong person might harm us badly. Thats why the most people after  realises value of self love after breakup or major loss in their life.

Self love is concept in which you are giving all your energy, love,respect, care to yourself. Specially Mothers are in a habit to love others so much that they forget about themself , their needs etc.  which is not a good thing. We only have one life ...we should serve people but there are certain responsibility towards ourself too.

Self love is not selfishness:

Just imagine you are hungry and serving food to others, or you need money but donating it to others. There would be a sense of emptiness within and many times its impossible to serve others what we need and where we are lacking.Instead if you try to love yourself first...you can love others in a much better way..

Depression, anxiety , and all those worries happens because we give importance to others more then ourself.  If a person loves himself fully he will never be sad no matter what life throws at him . 

When one learns to respect himself first...he will never allow anyone to harm him by words...or disrespect him in any way. Sometimes we fear for the outcome and thus we push ourself and tolerate a lot...which we must never do that. One should not be so hard to himself . Take your stand when its already too much. 

When a person learn to love himself first he will never be in search of it from the world. We all have certain flaws and imperfections. We always try to correct it or hide it but what we forget is its normal to be imperfect and its okay to not to be okay! When we give ourself gift of acceptance and love ourself the way we are our heart smiles. And bro that smile is killer dude.

When a person cares for himself,this goes specially to ladies and women who get entangled in family so much that they forget they are alive too! They have their own wishes too! They have their own likes and dislikes too. They can buy things what they like. They can care for their own health by practicing healthy life style that they always wanted too...they can dance ,sing,draw,sketch ,or do anything that makes them feel good. 

We all run behind name,fame and money but what we forget to look is health, happiness and satisfaction that all lies within.

Self love means to take stand for self when required and fight against wrong if necessary. Lot of girls or boys just tolerate so many things that they are ready to change themself or do anything for the love of their life. But they fail to recognise that the love they are in search of also lies within. At the end everything is temporary your closest bond can brake within a fraction pf seconds...but what remains permanent is the way you hold yourself both in good and bad situation.

Self love is that chapter of life which changes the perspective of every core values ...we try to question what people will think? Whether people will like it or not? What if they judge us etc...but the moment you stop thinking about others you start thinking for yourself.

Self love...love yourself unconditionally, without any flaws or without any condition.

Its not like you say I will love myself when I score highest marks, or when I get successful in my goals. Self love means loving yourself even if you have failed multiple times...

Its the hope that no one can take away from you, it becomes your willpower and you no longer have to punish yourself when you couldnt do it. 

Self love acts as wonder when one is at its lowest. Life can be fair, can be unfair, things can be good, things can be bad. No one has any control over it. When a person is defeated even if at every area of life ,if he knows to be happy and love himself completely he already won the game !

Thus to conclude I will say be the love that you are seeking outside in the world, be your own happiness , console yourself in toughest moment, break and rise even much more stronger. When you love yourself world can hardly effect you . When you love yourself Magic Happens.