Confidence is the key!

 Confidence!

10 letter word but has great impact! CONFIDENCE CAN CHANGE THE GAME!

There are multiple cases where in people judge other person by looks, by talk, by education ,by money ,by status, by ability etc...and the victims loose their confidence completely. This not just impact their ability of working but kills all the greater heights of possibilities that they could have reached....

We human beings haven't let a single thing that can remain unjudged...like everything is being judged!

See ...it's not at al practical and possible to be perfect at all corners...and just because people judge  it doesn't mean someone is less then others. 

Every single person born in this world is unique. Perfection is not in looks, status,money or any such things it lies in the eyes who sees it. People can have all the flaws and goodness but it depends on what other person is interested in seeing.

If a fish is being criticised of not flying ....and fish also somewhere thinks it's her mistake or she is unlucky....it eventually kills the beauty of fish....she will loose her confidence slowly....and feel unworthy. At last when she becomes very hard on herself and try to change completely by coming out of water so that she can fly and prove everyone wrong...she comes out of water n soon she dies !

It's not just story of a single fish it's the story of million people who have killed their innocence, their inner child, in order to be respectable in society.

See people see what they want to see...people will come in your life to judge you, criticise you ,pull you down by comparing you, by saying you to fit in societal standards...

Remember 3 things:

1) What people criticise you is more about their own pain, insecurity then about you...

2)It's people's choice to see good or bad about you ! Plus It's also your only choice to see yourself from their point of view or your point of view .

3) Accept yourself the way you are, Love yourself to the fullest....be good to yourself and do whatever best you can do for your true happiness but don't be a puppet of anyone...by acting as they want you to be acted...

Don't let anyone brake your confidence...Love yourself to the fullest,deepest, unconditional because at the time of last count of your life....when death is soon only you will be with you! All that materialistic things will end what would sustain is all that joyful and your good deeds.