14 November 2024

Confidence is the key!

 Confidence!

10 letter word but has great impact! CONFIDENCE CAN CHANGE THE GAME!

There are multiple cases where in people judge other person by looks, by talk, by education ,by money ,by status, by ability etc...and the victims loose their confidence completely. This not just impact their ability of working but kills all the greater heights of possibilities that they could have reached....

We human beings haven't let a single thing that can remain unjudged...like everything is being judged!



See ...it's not at al practical and possible to be perfect at all corners...and just because people judge  it doesn't mean someone is less then others. 

Every single person born in this world is unique. Perfection is not in looks, status,money or any such things it lies in the eyes who sees it. People can have all the flaws and goodness but it depends on what other person is interested in seeing.

If a fish is being criticised of not flying ....and fish also somewhere thinks it's her mistake or she is unlucky....it eventually kills the beauty of fish....she will loose her confidence slowly....and feel unworthy. At last when she becomes very hard on herself and try to change completely by coming out of water so that she can fly and prove everyone wrong...she comes out of water n soon she dies !

11 January 2024

When adapting new habit becomes a herculine task.

Following are the points to adapt any daily habits with ease:

1.Question yourself that what are all new daily habits to be adapted?

This means create a list of all the habits that you want to adapt….like every single  and smallest to biggest one

2.Which one are really very much in need?

Not all daily habits that what we want to adapt comes from our will…we are influenced by people around us and simply want to becomes like others and force ourself which is not a good thing. Because even if we become like others we loose our uniqueness!


3. One habit at one go

Prioritise only one habit first.Adapting new habits gets challenging because it requires to brake the old belief we are attached to… thus dont hurry yourself. Just take one habit work on it and once it becomes your habit with ease then go for other one. For example: If you want to make a habit of reading everyday then untill and unless you read with ease for few days and really feel interested dont adapt another habit of getting up early as chances are there that second habit might take time to develop and by that time you again lost the grip of first habit that you recently cultivated.