Life is very beautiful....and as it is beautiful it is more unpredictable too...we never know what happens. It can be best sometimes,it can be worst too. We might feel amazing and suddenly it can give us shock, We might feel sad and suddenly it can be magical too!Life is just so unpredictable!
Health,career,relationship anything at any time can challenge us...sometimes all the things gets messed up at a single stretch!
SOCIETAL STANDARDS
It looks like society had created certain standards and everyone think in the same direction and keep on following without even questioning it.So lets discuss few...
1. To be perfect apperance wise
If a person is not good looking then people doesn't even stay clam for a second and start judging and passes on tons of advices . Thus everyone claims for perfect figure...like he or she must not to be fat, skinny,ugly,short heighted etc
But wait a minute does life comes with an instruction guide or have we given choices before we were created ? No right? Then why to be sad for the thing which is not under our control? But if its under our control then we can definitely work for it.
And to those who passes on those silly comments...why the hell are those people bothered about others life? Like if they really care is different story but majority of times they just want to satisfy their ego.
And to those poor people who listen to those comments and blame on themself for entire life for not being perfect...guys however we are its God 's gift . And stop blaming yourself. Its like your punishing yourself without your mistake! Each one have their own strength and weakness. Try to love yourself first the way you are...We cannot satisfy entire society but we must definitely be happy within....
Perfection doesn't exist in reality. Everyone have their own flaws. So its beautiful to be imperfectly happy...
A decade back the line..
1.Technology
My mom used to say me that to have television in their house at their times was such a valuable thing and great symbol of status. And then after certain years when we used to watch television I remember how eagerly we used to wait for our favorite serials and even used to fight for remote. Now it feels like television is hanging on wall ,fully bored up and eagerly waiting for someone to even on it!
10 years back the line to have phone was like to have luxurious car as of now. But now each one has phone! Does it meant each one will have luxurious car after 10 years? Ohh...just kidding...I meant things changes so rapidly ...what today is highly valuable will lose its value after certain years..
It feels like things started becoming smaller from t.v who looks like a box to a t.v which is smart and slim or from a phone which had weight and having lots of buttons to a light weighted phone with numerous features and slim look or whether its computer which was heavier with too many wires is now been given an option of laptop which could be easily carried.
Competition, comparison and judgments...
Competition:
When we are born we are compared with our siblings, later with friends,colleagues etc,...no matter how great you are but when compared,either you will be better or lesser in the point of view of others. If you are lesser then you will be in a state of sadness,self doubt,lack of self esteem and jealousy. But if you are in better position then you will be in a state of high ego, high self esteem, over confident and too much proud of yourself.
Either stage is not good...because of competitions relations are badly effected and indirectly life is effected.
