New job

New job

We all have one thing common in mind that is to earn money and 'To stand on our own legs' as proverb been said and heard. For the purpose of earning we have a concept of choosing right career options so that we will be enjoying while earning. 

Thus choosing right career option becomes one of the major important choice of life. From the childhood kid is prepared to study as much as possible and score highest marks.

Some kids are presurised to choose certain option and perform in a certain way.  At the age 20 to 25 it becomes very hard to manage our studies,job and also to enter into marriage proposals.

Societal Standards.

SOCIETAL STANDARDS

It looks like society had created certain standards and everyone think in the same direction and keep on following without even questioning it.So lets discuss few...

1. To be perfect apperance wise

If a person is not good looking then people doesn't even stay clam for a second and start judging and passes on tons of  advices . Thus everyone claims for perfect figure...like he or she must not to be fat, skinny,ugly,short heighted etc

 But wait a minute does life comes with an instruction guide or have we given choices before we were created ? No right? Then why to be sad for the thing which is not under our control? But if its under our control then we can definitely work for it.

And to those who passes on those silly comments...why the hell are those people bothered about others life? Like if they really care is different story but majority of times they just want to satisfy their ego. 

 And to those poor people who listen to those comments and blame on themself for entire life for not being perfect...guys however we are its God 's gift . And stop blaming yourself. Its like your punishing yourself without your mistake! Each one have their own strength and weakness. Try to love yourself first the way you are...We cannot satisfy entire society but we must definitely be happy within....

Perfection doesn't exist in reality. Everyone have their own flaws. So its beautiful to be imperfectly happy...

A decade back the line...

A decade back the line..

1.Technology

 My mom used to say me that to have  television in their house at their times was such a valuable thing and great symbol of status. And then after certain years when we used to watch television I remember how eagerly we used to wait for our favorite serials  and even used to fight for remote. Now  it feels like television is hanging on wall ,fully bored up and eagerly waiting for someone to  even on it!

10 years back the line to have phone was like to have luxurious car as of now. But now each one has phone! Does it meant each one will have luxurious car after 10 years? Ohh...just kidding...I meant things changes so rapidly ...what today is highly valuable will lose its value after certain years..

It feels like things started becoming smaller from t.v who looks like a box to a t.v which is smart and slim or  from a phone which had weight and having lots of buttons to a light weighted phone with numerous features and slim look or whether its computer which was heavier with too many wires is now been given an option of  laptop which could be easily carried.

 

Competition, comparison and judgements.

 Competition, comparison and judgments...

Competition: 

When we are born we are compared with our siblings, later with friends,colleagues etc,...no matter how great you are but when compared,either you will be better or lesser in the point of view of others. If you are lesser then you will be in a state of sadness,self doubt,lack of self esteem and jealousy. But if  you are in better position then you will be in a state of high ego, high self esteem, over confident and too much proud of yourself. 

Either stage is not good...because of competitions relations are badly effected and indirectly life is effected.

World of criticism...

Criticism...we all have gone through lots of situations of life in which people judge too much, they say like you are not good looking...they say you are fat,thin,ugly etc...and keep on criticising without even understanding its impact on us!

Criticism arises from imperfections. If we are perfect no one will criticize but reality is no one in the world is perfect.  No matter how great we are, people can still judge us from there point of view and can criticize us.

 They might sometimes misunderstand us or might simply do so to pull us down for either to satisfy their ego or just for their own benefits.

Let your each day count!

Let your each day count!

We all know how precious is our life,but sometimes every day is a same old story. Its a rat race which never ends...

  

  There is nothing wrong in following a routine but there is a problem when we forget our smile, when we are not curious to learn new things....when we are not even excited for next day!

Mobile addiction vs Willpower

We are so much trapped by our own mind that when it comes to change for betterment...we try 5 % and expect 100% result!

Mobile is such an amazing device but  only if we use it in proper way. The thing is nowadays if we are free even for a minute....our hand goes subconsciously to pick up mobile and then hours passes off in just scrolling down... Actually we are not scrolling pictures we are scrolling our life down!

If instead of using mobile too much unnecessary ,if we start observing life it would be a grate thing. Life is beautiful it is us who makes it boring! There is nothing called as boredom if we have our company with us!

But when using too much of mobile becomes our habit things go out of control then lets see clash between willpower and mobile addiction. 

Mobile Addiction vs Willpower

1. Mobile addiction: "Hey...check out me... I will show you something trendy and  amazing today"

Willpower: " You are right but hours will simply pass off in checking out so called trendy and amazing thing which is not at all amazing thing!"

2.Mobile addiction: "Lets make a deal to see for 10 mins maximum"

Willpower: "10 mins will become hours, not to take such risk"

Lockdown time

When corona virus came last year it was like so much fear...so much worries.. we never ever thought such things will happen...in this pandemic many had lost their loved ones,their business, their job,their studies etc... 

After 1 year when things had turn out to be normal again same things started happening and again this lockdown began...Hope things turn out favourable soon.

Today I just thought why not share some experience of lockdown.