25 September 2019

What is positivity and why it is required?

Throughout  our life we keep hearing dont say negative you never know when your words become true..and people often advice to be positive. So in this blog we will be dealing with what positiveness is ?and why positivity is required?



What is positivity?
Positivity is simply being optimistic irrespective of situation. It is a kind of habit which we are required to maaintain.Its not one day task or one time work but it is attitude which last till we die. Focusing on good qualities in people rather then talking behind their back about them and making fun of them. Seeing good in every possible situation...

Positivity is wrongly understood that one must always be positive...which is not completely right. Yes we are required to be positive most of times.. but one must understand that we must not to be positive in our wrong thoughts,feelings,words or action. Example  If Mr A is a lazy person and keep postponing things   One day it was too much that he was a given  a work but he just did 12%of work in 50% of his time. And when he was asked to do the remaining work he was saying I did 12% of work which many people fail to do... Mr A 's mindset must be such that he must motivate himself to complete the work on time rather then giving any other reason or being positive about his wrong action.One must also understand that we must also think practically how we can solve a problem rather then complicating it by our negative emotions.

Why positivity is required?
Positiveness gives us motivation to achieve rather then getting depressed by failures.It gives us sense of hope which is lost in negative situation. It gives us a mindset where we can seek different opportunities in challenging situation rather then blaming God that "why it happens to me only always? " Or blaming others that
"Just because of you only it happened.." why this thing is required ?when problems comes it has solution born with it but only thing is we are not able to find it.
Blaming others or ourself is pointless.
Positivity is also required to stay away from negative emotions...

I will give you same old example of Glass  which is very popular... Imagine in front of you there is a glass on table which is halfly filled with water. What will you say about glass and will you define it?


I mean whether the glass is half empty or you will say it is half full? Your answer will define whether you are a positive person or not much positive person. If you say it is half empty it means you look on negative in others or in situation but if you say it is half full then it means you are focusing good things,seeking opportunities and thus  you are a positive person and hardly get upset...

Observe the fact that in the above example both the answer whether glass is half empty or glass is half full both are right  but what makes them different is their attitude, their positive way of looking things...

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